My first experience after having sexual intercourse was pretty scary. I was unsure of where to go, where to get information, who to talk to and wished I was educated before engaging in sex. But sometimes it happens -we get caught in the moment. Planned Parenthood was the first place I went to for advice at the age of 16. I walked in with a hoodie on, hoping not to see anyone, trying to give a different name so no one would know. I heard through friends that they can help students with great information and services for little or no cost and it’s private. I left the clinic with my head high, a bag full of free condoms and a brain full of knowledge. I felt confident leaving the clinic educated, knowing all my choices and that there are people available to talk with that had no judgment and genuinely wanted to educate me about sex. Luckily, today there are many resources on the Internet and certain websites. However, it is important to be careful when seeking information on the net. There are many myths about sex, pregnancy and STI’s and it is important to only use reliable sources that give out correct information. Try websites that are recommended by health professionals and well-known organizations and health centers. When learning about your body it is important to get correct information on how to take care of yourself when engaging in any kind of sexual activity.

The Sex Ed Guru Says: "Absolutely! The net is full of information, and will have hundreds or thousands of sites on the same topic. While it’s great that you are getting more information online, make sure it’s from a reliable source (ask your doctor or teachers for examples of reliable sources). Don’t forget to include regular medical visits because no amount of information on the web can replace actual medical services."

Being comfortable and trying to talk to others about sex can be really hard sometimes, I know it always was for me! We may get embarrassed and worried about judgment, but it can really help to talk to a trusted adult or friend. If you need advice, talk to someone you can trust, and if you feel there is no one, there are many hotline and phone numbers to talk with someone if you have questions. Just look up! You can see them on this website! Just make sure to take information from accurate resources and not just what anyone may say around you. Get advice and information from a medical professional. When seeking advice, services or information about sex or any health concerns, it is important that that you feel comfortable and are willing to let people know about your experiences. There have definitely been times when I was hesitant about sharing my sexual experiences with anyone, but then I realized I may not get the correct care because I wasn’t telling the truth. So be comfortable and confident that you are being responsible with getting the correct care for yourself.